Nzhinga has been trying to persuade her young son that he should study and not rely on becoming a famous soccer star; after all, he might get injured and not be able to play. But her son has a solution. Jihad: “I know what I'll do! My wife will have a job.” Me: “What? What kind of man just lets his wife pay everything?” Jihad: “Well she was there when I made the money, she should help me out now that I can't play soccer.“